Oh no, Christine! I am so so sorry! Oh, how terrible for you and your family. I never met Ian, but so enjoyed talking to him by email, and sharing about our families. If I'm remembering correctly, Ian's mom was Margaret, who was my grandfather Wilfred's sister. My dad also passed away suddenly by heart attack, more than 20 years ago. It was such a shock, and so hard to process. My heart goes out to you and your family. You'll all be in my prayers. Thank you for sharing this with me. Please let me know if there's any way that I can help. With love, Andrea Dad’s cousin in America, her dad was Wilf, Grandma’s brother